I’m not sure if guys find it endearing when they persist after a girl that has made it clear that she does not find ANY interest in him, before, now or in the future. They still call you all the time, openly flirt with you, ask you out, and say a lot of things that just makes you classify them as “creeper”
It doesn’t matter if you have known this girl for years or just a few days, or if she is older or younger, or if she is taken or single. If a girl says to a guy “No, I have zero interest in you, please stay far away from me because you are creeping me out” directly, she probably means it. And if you want to salvage any bit of friendship, you’d best keep your distance. Seriously. If a girl friend-zones you, and you push it, BOY you are going to push yourself out of the friend-zone and into the dust. We may never call you again, talk to you again, see you again. You will suddenly find it impossible to get a hold of us. We are THAT frightening.
Guys. Do us a favor and GET A CLUE. We probably have another guy in mind. And when a girl likes a guy, ANY other approaches makes us run away from you like a plague. This includes not answering your phone calls, blocking you on instant messenger, or even moving across the country. So please. If you really care about us, let us live our lives in peace. No girl wants a creepy guy friend who only cares about getting in her pants, or one who will constantly bad-mouth her current love interest. It just makes you look bad. And this will run through the girl’s mind. “Thank God I didn’t date him, this is why!”